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pictures of BM in skids room...

raindrop's picture

Not sure why this bothered me about my *now* ex, but in order to alleviate his kids sadness over missing BM while they are at his house, he asked BM for pictures of herself. He then framed them (2) and at night time, he has the kids give their mommy a kiss through the frame...or anytime they missed their mommy. I;m cool with the kids needing a pic of their mommy, but I used to wonder how often he looked at her pics when the kids/myself weren't around.

raindrop's picture

yes! I'm much happier now. He text me a week ago with the "I love you, I miss you" crap, but I DID NOT respond!

It is crazy, but the person who has been helping me really get thru this is my STEP MOM!! She has been my SM for 30 of my 32 years. The thing she said to me that makes me LMAO anytime he calls/texts is: "Raindrop, he has been married twice to two idiotic redneck hillbillies. And guess what: they don't want him. It' not like Princess Di doesn't want him, but rather, 2 hillbillies loathed him enough to divorce his ass. He is clearly not worth it."

uncommon's picture

I don't really think that is weird... she's their mom after all. But if it made you uncomfortable he should have taken that into consideration and I don't know your backstory but it sounds like it wasn't the only issue.