SOmehow fiance got talking about money/jobs/career with SD13 in an attempt to try to get her to see that she needs to wake up and get serious about school.

he basically went throught the roster of all her aunts, uncles on BOTH sides as well as him and BM, explaining the pros and cons of no college, some college, trades, etc.

at one point SD told him that BM makes "good money".

BM has no degree, failed out of college twice attempting an associates, and works 1-2 days per week. Her W-2 for last year showed just over $11K in income. She survives basically on CS and her parents.

but of course BM lives better than we do in terms of a fancy car (that fiance bought for her when they were married, not her money), SD gets an endless supply of cash to go to the mall with, and BM gets her hair and nails done all the time and essentially fritters money away on things like coffee, etc.

its just shocking what they havent taught this kid! its honestly no surprise why she doesnt value hard work or education or have any concept as to what things cost.