Can somebody please explain why my bf's ex-wife called his cellphone at 1:30 in the morning? I answered the phone and the best thing she could come up with was I was just calling to see if you guys have a home phone number because I am filling out Johnathans paperwork for school... Hello at 1:30AM? Second he hasn't had a home phone in 8 years... This is why you called. I am not buying it one bit and I KNOW she didn't expect for me to answer the telephone.
Next about 30 min later she sends an email to my BF and copy me regarding extra curricular activities and how she needs to be informed in advanced. The activity is not until September 8th and its 2:30am on 8/22???? HUH Ok its 2:30AM at this time so why are you communicating these things during these hours? That's the first obvious question but most importantly How the F**K did you get my work information and email? I sent her a message back explaining how I didn't appreciate her contacting me regarding issues of their son and she needs to keep that between the two of them. I definitely didn't appreciate her contacting me at my place of employment because I did not give her permission or the information. I was reluctant from the beginning to even give her my name and all she did was make my worse fear come true by googling me on the Internet and contact me at my job. Not to mention, I have been very respectful towards her and her son and I go over and beyond to help him, buy him clothes, pick him up and drop him off. I mean REALLY???
What is this really about? I believe she is jealous because we are happy and her son is happier with us. In addition, she is upset because I live in the house they purchased together that she moved out of after 6 months and she must have heard that we are looking for a house together. The last thing she wants is for us to get married so she doesnt have to deal with me and I will be in control of everything. Its just so mentally draining and emotionally exhausting to deal with this especially if I have not given her any reason to do so.