Tired of fighting
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I get so tired of having to fight about everything first. We have made progress since SD has become part of our lives. Some changes have been made, some boundaries set. But I feel like for every step forward we have to fight about it first. It's exhausting.
I'll keep my advise as short
I'll keep my advise as short as your complaint. Read and implement this: http://steptogether.org/disengaging.html