Background info:
-SS8 has been in my household since he was 2.
-BM’s custody revoked by the state after endangerment and neglect charges when SS was 2.
-BM has not regained any custody, but has worked up to Every Other Week visitation and pays the minimum in Child Support.
-BM has had several contaminated or dilute drug screens and does not put her child first in her life choices.
-Judge said that if there was one more incident, they would put her back on supervised visitation only indefinitely.
-Last week, dilute drug screen and we have court next week.
-When notified of this, BM said she would be requesting a “Change of Venue” and texted DH a lot about how the judge is so unfair and she has no idea how the screen could be dilute. She has said this kind of thing before, but her old PO always debunks it.

So, my DH is ready to go and hold the judge to what she said last time. And I feel like I want to stick it to BM as well as keeping SS safe. But supervised visits are so awful at the place they made us go awhile back. Has anyone had experience with doing them yourself?
And in regards to CS, would it be unreasonable to make her pay more to compensate us for the cost of summer camp now that we may need to send him EVERY week instead of EOW?
Any other thoughts?