caller id
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We have caller id, when i get home i check it. I see three strange numbers, So i ask about them. Thought maybe one was for me or pertained to me. I asked about the first, it was his sd. 2nd was his ss.DF called earlier, left vm, its ss's bday. so ss called back. and third was his exs number. apparently sd called from there. He said that he is going to call other skid tomorrow as its there bday tomorrow. like i really have a problem with that. after i was done he pops off with "anymore calls you need to ask about?" In a tone suggesting that i had no right to ask about "our" caller id...So now he is acting like he said nothing rude and i am a lil annoyed.
tell him to kiss ur butt. u
tell him to kiss ur butt. u can ask about whatever number u want and contiue to ask about them. give him the cold shoulder for a while. it always makes me feel better to watch my suck up after he says or does something stupid.
Somedays I do the same thing
Somedays I do the same thing - check the caller I.D. Why? Because DH keeps things to himself. Obviously I'm fooling myself b.c. I don't check his cell phone/email...
I have caller id, as I never
I have caller id, as I never answer if it is BM! Make sure you have all the SKIDS numbers programmed into your phone so you know what is going on.
Our phone also logs outgoing calls and I was able to catch SD redhanded so to speak having made various expensive outgoing calls without permission while me and the DH were out. I called her a liar to her face and she had the gall to deny it.
thats how I feel. Its not
thats how I feel. Its not like he shares things he talks about with them with me. Most of the time thats fine, but sometimes it'd just be nice to be part of the loop. I have to pry info out of him. I on the other hand tell him everything I do in a day. I am just that way. I dont have to, but i guess i think he might be interested in hearing about my day. He seems to hide talking to them, like he is commenting a sin. I am going to continue checking the caller id bc i have every right to.
I hear ya Dodgegal05! It's
I hear ya Dodgegal05! It's like everything is a BIG secret between DH and his kids, especially SD/Golden Uterus Baby Maker. When her special "bling" sounds on his cell he has to get up and RUN somewhere to talk to her. I'm pretty sure he doesn't do that when I call him! And, if (God forbid) he is trapped somewhere within ear shot of me when she calls, he is very short on the call--you know, like "no other information can be given at this time". Whatever! I've disengaged from his kids, so I don't really give a flip what's going on in their Jerry Springer lives. DH needs to grow up, too, and deal with their drama like a MAN.
Eyes Wide Open-Maybe these
Eyes Wide Open-Maybe these men should get together. they seem to be a perfect match.
The fact that me asking him bugs him so much wouldnt be so annoying, but if i talk to my ex or i get a text from a guy he asks who he is, what they said. So maybe I should react the same way he does...probably not the smartest/nicest thing to do, but I dont know why i should treat him any different. I know I should just kill him with kindness and be the bigger person.
Tonight I didnt ask about anything (mainly bc nothing to ask about) and he said I was acting fuuny. I swear I cant win either way.
I am with you all. I can
I am with you all. I can always tell when it is oldest SD. He answers in a tone you would think was a love struck 16 year old. Never to anyone else in this tone. I also used to ask occasionally what they talked about - this would annoy him, but I guess I'm always suspicious, because I know I cannot trust her or him when he is around her - with VERY valid reasons. Really odd, even a cousin that is very close with oldest SD told me "Oldest SD acts like DH is her boyfriend". When I told DH, he got furious. Everyone can see it but him. Really fed up with this situation - we're talking about a 35 year old SD.