I still need to rant. Even though I don't see husband's kids(thank goodness) they still are present in my life. DH got a call from one last night of course at dinner time and for some reason he needs to give her a blow by blow account of his life, mine included. It's really something. It almost sounds like the old days of being in the confessional with the priest. Lol. She has him trained well. He asked me why our taxes were lower this year while on the call. Yes he told her about paying our taxes this week. WTF???  I told him in a voice she would hear.  "That is for you and I to discuss in private."  He got off the phone quickly. 
Another rant. The in law that visits with his kids that pee in my guest beds is coming for his annual visit. Every year after the visit he sends  large photos framed of course of my DH and his kids while at our house.  I'm nowhere in any of the photos. Im just the party planner. The one who buys the tickets to the stadium the kids museums. The one who cooks and bakes the whole weekend. I told DH I  am still cooking dinner. He's the party planner this week. And oh yeah I have industrial strength plastic coverings for my mattresses.