God, help me. Me and DH(mostly me)have been working with BD12 and SD11 on cleaning up after themselves. BD has done very well, but she didn't have that far to go. SD did ok the first week, but the next week, she repeatedly left her food messes around. DH didn't notice and I just cleaned around it. BD was the one that ended up mentioning it to SD.

Well, the adult SD is a walking pig pen and so is her son! Seriously, and she NEVER has cleaned up behind them.

So she needs to learn a lesson that her momma didn't bother teaching her...I'll ask BD and SD11 to clean their area of the table and maybe she will get the hint.

I don't want to say anything rude to adult SD because I don't fet along with her anyway. She is the one that would "drop in" 2-5 times a week.