My SD16 cleaned out her bedroom the other day and left the garbage in the garage because we didn't have room in the garbage can. I was putting some garbage into the can today, and noticed a bunch of recyclable material in the garbage can so I began to take it out and put it in the recycling can to make more room in our garbage can --- to make it last for the entire week. It was my SD16s garbage.

I found some of MY own stuff in the garbage. One of the items was a knitted hat that my mom had made me for Christmas. I had wondered what had happened to it. It now has a stain on it and a rip in it. Sigh. She took it without asking. Used it without asking. Then threw it in the garbage with no care at all about it being mine at all. I then found some old barbie clothes of mine in there too. They were given to me when I was a child by my mother. They had been hand sewn and I had held on to them for 30+ years. How they ended up in SD16s possession is beyond me!! I also found two candle votive holders that my Mom had also given me in the garbage that SD16 apparently had been using or at least had in her room, didn't ask to use of mine, and then just threw in the trash also!

I am livid! She not only took items out of my bedroom -- but went through my boxes in the garage, took things, used them, then trashed them!

Then to top it off, also found a beer bottle. She's toast. I am so pissed off. Last week her sister took my dining table and two chairs from the house. In order to get them back she told my DH that "if you want them back you can come get them." What the hell?! I already wrote about that one. But these are the kind of people I'm dealing with.

Just waiting for her to get home tonight. We'll see how tonight goes and what my husband does and says. Whatever.