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Submitted by 12yrstepmonster on Thu, 03/17/2011 - 8:21pm

YOu sit with your headphones one watching stupid videos or playing computer games.....DH you wonder why SS doesn't like to come here, or why he doesn't talk to you. It's pretty hard to talk to someone that has disengaged and is self serving.

GROW UP you are 45 years old and you don't have to play computer games like you were 18.

This is probably my biggest complaint. I HATE COMPUTER GAMES......I hate his computer....I am fed up with being the micro manager in our house.....UGH.

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Submitted by 12yrstepmonster on Thu, 03/17/2011 - 9:08pm

12 years, he goes thru spells he gets better and then "falls off the wagon" and then complains that I fall asleep on the couch. if he's not gaming, he is napping which is what happens when you try to stay awake late at night to play your damn games and get up at 430 to go to work (and right now I've been getting his butt up to at 230am to walk our puppies. Sorry there charlie I wanted ONE puppy, you had to have the second.

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Submitted by dakotamom on Fri, 03/18/2011 - 8:07am

after the BF i had before meeting DH i asked if he was into video games - if he was it was going to be over before it started. DH said no he hated them but his kids play them all the time. Silly me was more concerned about no video games, never dated a guy with kids before - they were self serving teenagers they couldnt be that hard to deal with right so i started a relationship. if i only knew...... if i dont make it with DH, my next requirements will be no video gaming dudes, and NO KIDS!!!!