There are days that I think this woman could not possible make me dislike her anymore. Then she does.

DH's Grandma asked me how I was enjoying my new washer and dryer (she got us a used set from a friend as a housewarming gift). I told her I was loving not having to haul laundry around. She was saying she was sorry she couldn't get me a matching set, but the dryer was just too nice to turn down. I was thinking she meant brand wise because the ones I have are both white. She got very confused and said no, my dryer was black. Now *I* am very confused, because my dryer is most decidedly white.
Turns out that when DH's BM (his mother, for clarification) volunteered to pick up the washer and dryer for us, she had decided she liked our dryer better, dropped it off at her house, taken her old one and loaded it up. DH's Grandma is chewing her out over the phone right now. She's whining that it wasn't fair that her mom gave me a nice dryer, she never gets anything nice. Never mind that DH's Grandma helped pay for her truck, let her, SIL, and nephew live with them for six months, and pays for DH's BM to go to a weight loss program every week even though she hasn't lost any weight in the entire time I've known her... mostly because that would require actually eating healthy like the program says! UGH!
This woman has stolen money from DH, tricked him into giving her money, made him pay rent to sleep on the couch in her living room with SIL's DOG! even though she had a bedroom and bed he could have slept in and she wasn't paying rent on the unit anyway, ruined his credit by having him put bills in his name at her house (he was 18 and thought she'd pay. $2000 cable bill and $300 utility bill later...), tried getting him to leave me to be with BM AFTER we got engaged, had BM over to her house for holidays (and provided booze and weed for the "party", thank GOD we had SD that night), spread rumors about me, showed up at my wedding barefoot in a black dress :? , told DH repeatedly she wishes that HE had been the one in the car crash that killed his brother, told him I'm the worst thing that's ever happened to their family, left DH in a crib for three days without changing him or feeding him when he was a baby (Neighbors called FIL to ask if he had the kids. DH was nearly dead from dehydration), and now, just to top it off, she steals a damn dryer from us! REALLY?! REALLY?!

SOMEONE tell me how I'm supposed to find enough love in my heart to deal with this woman!