I deleted my blog pertaining to SD18stb19 moving out because it was so easily identifiable. However, it has been the best two weeks ever! My DH has not been visibly upset or acting any different than usual; with the exception of the actual evening she moved out. Well, not even then actually . As she, her great uncle, and grandfather were removing her things from the house, he seemed upset. Even when she started crying when it was time to say goodbye he was pretty emotionless; which is strange for him as he isn't affraid to show emotion. Maybe he was trying to hide it? I really don't know. 

She texted and called him on his birthday last week, which was truly a surprise as I did not think she would remember. I am guessing BM reminded her. She is also off our family phone plan, but BM add SD to hers, so she no longer has to pay that bill etiher (SD was paying $20 a month with us). Therefore, she is now not responsible for one red cent! She is living the life; the life of a freeloader that is. 

I decided last week that I was going to change our Netflix password since, you know, we pay for it and SD was using it an so was BM and her SO (I could see where the devices were logged in at). Well, DH asked why he was logged out on his phone, which I knew was a ploy to give it to SD, as he never watches tv on his phone, but I gave it to him. As expected, the very next day SD logged in through her xbox and continued to watch 9 straight hours of one specific cartoon. The next day I blocked that title from her account. Am I evil; aboslutely. However, I will not say anything to DH about her being there because it is not a hill to die on. I will however, continue to block her most watched/liked show monthly. 

Since the move, I have kept quiet about her and have left her room untouched. That is changing this weekend since DH is not as upset I thought he would be. I plan to show him a few things I would like to put in there for guests, and see which he likes. I will also be transitioning it to the workout room tomorrow. It will be a combination guest room, office, and workout room for now. That will change when my bio twins 16stb17 move out; which they are already planning to do the summer after high school graduation. One is in dual enrollment and will have his Associates Degree when he graduates HS, and he and his friends are already pricing out apartments near the university (same location where we live, but an hour or so away) he will be direct connecting to. The other son wants to move near the other side of his family, which he is very close to, and his uncle has offered him an apprenticeship opportuntiy to learn the construction type (not sure exactly what) work he does and owns a company. My son already works for him when he visits in the summer. It is very likely at this point they will both be gone in 2 short years. 

Overall, not having to deal with the lazy and unmotivated SD has been fantastic for my mood. I have not been drinking my anger away, nor having any anxiety issues when I know she is going to make a fuss about what we made for dinner. Nor do I have to watch her on our cameras laying around the house all day, every day, watching cartoon in her pajamas. I don't ask about her because I really do not care anymore. That bridge crashed years ago and I do not plan on rebuilding it. When DH did mention her once, saying she was doing ok and a friend was coming over to help ther unpack and stay the night, I said "that's nice." He did not keep going nor did I. 

The big question now is: when will she come back because we all know it is going to happen sometime. Grandpa will not allow her to live there for the rest of her life for free or will he? That is the only thought that creeps back into my mind. I cannot let that get to me as I need to embrace what I have right now; peace.