Quick update
Just a quick update... things have been quiet and peaceful since LI left after Christmas but now that the weather is warming up my anxiety is creeping back in. At Christmas LI mentioned that she'd like to come back up in the summer so we could all meet her new bf (like anyone, including DH, gives a flying f- about meeting the latest in what will undoubtedly be a revolving door of men).
A couple things since Christmas....
- LI posted on social media about how she's suddenly become "important" at her work as a bartender. Whatever that means. Probably bragging because since everyone else left the dead end job for greener pastures she's been given more responsibilities simply due to being the only one still there/senority. She is also looking for a new job but can't seem to find anyone to hire her outside the restaurant industry.
- No mention of the EMT program she was supposed to start next month. Who knows if that will ever come to fruition
- She's also looking for a new place to live. Fidel Castro and his wife have apparently gotten sick of her. Not even 6 months of living with her and I'm sure they are ready to give her the boot. When LI was visiting at Christmas she claimed she was living with her bf but all her mail was going to Castro's house and she was paying rent there and bf still lived in the family home. Here nor there, she lies all the time so you can't trust anything she says and someone apparently tired of her.
- The skunk ape has had to move again as well. Her life has always been a mess. She bumps around from minimum wage job to minimum wage job. I'm sure she's in another motel somewhere.
Anyway, hoping I can somehow escape the summer without a visit from LI.
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Buy LI plane tickets and BF tickets. You bring this on yourself. Or DH does it. No tickets no LI. Your problem is your DH. He wants to see his DD. And jumps the hoops to see her. Not having any respect for your feelings.4
9 There are few career bartender, only at big companies, Disney, hotels, Just to much temptation to start drinking. Everyone is looking for EMT'S . Great job, really needed. But the pay doesn't reflect on the level of responsibility.
We all want LI to find her calling in life. Unfortunately she always gives the good talk, Doctor, EMT. But does bartending.
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Time to put the onus of action on LI.
FIrst, no bringing of the BF of the moment until she has been in an exclusive relationship with him for 2yrs. Hell, make it 3yrs.
My mom would get very frustrated with me during the 3 years after my divorce because I would not introduce my parents to the GF of the moment when mom and dad would visit. I finally had to sit mom down and explain that it was not that I did not want to introduce my parents to "her", it was that I had no intention of introducing her to them as she would not be a long term presence in my life. I was extremely protective of my family relationships.
When I introduced my then FDW to them when they visited for Christmas, mom and dad took notice. FDW and I had only been dating for about 6wks at that time. When they came back 3mos later for my nieces arrival and my brother and I finishing Engineering school and we were still dating, I included iner in my university graduation, etc.... They invested in getting to know her. A couple of weeks later when I left to start my career in a neighboting state, my parents spent a lot of time with my FDW and FSS. FDW and I had agreed that we would be together until I graduated then we would both get on with our lives. I think my parents had other ideas.
We married 5mos later. We had known each other and been dating for 8mos. Though I had moved 5mos before em married. After we decided to marry, my mom went all in on getting DW's apartment contents moved to the condo that my brother and I had purchased while we were in engineering school so the relo company could get my stuff and hers packed and moved. Then, mom, DW, and SS joined me in CA and spent a few months with us and with my brother and his family.
Do not let LI pollute your lives with her F-buddy of the moment. She uses these sad saps as shields and to deflect the microscope being on her.
As for her position of "importance" while bartending, Meh. So what? Let her continue to prove what she is to her social media world. As small and inconsequential as that may be. They are learning what and who she is because she is showing them.
So, no more tickets for LI and for damned sure no tickets for her to bring her beard shield of the moment to avoid your and daddy's hairy eyeball for the visit. Sje os a big girl and should buy her own damned tickets. But only with full joint approval by you and DH. You veto, the answer is no to a visit. Even if LI does pay for it.
As for SkunkApe. What an entertaining never ending slow motion train wreck she is. As horrendous as the train wreck of her life is, it is difficult to look away.
Get the popcorn.