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So, our guardian ad litem is doing her home visit tmrw. Court is next Monday. Wedding is in 53 days. Everything is finally coming together and yet bc nothing is going right with the wedding I'm sick thinking about everything that could go wrong in court.

Granted, BM no longer has a lawyer (she got dropped as a client by the lawyer for "some reason"), and she's been non compliant with the court order for the GAL. She's not made one attempt to contact her or return her phone calls, or pay her...so GAL is basically "forced" to side with us bc well, unless were terrible she has no reason not to. Plus there's a million other reasons that BM is just a leech upon the universe that she shouldn't have the kids...but that's another blog :). I work night and have to work tonight but I know I won't be sleeping tmrw bc I'm just so nervous. I can't wait for this all to be over with.

On another note I wrote another note in the skids assignment books (see previous blog) and while I won't see if dumbass BM wrote anything else in there about it, she hasn't messaged FDH about it...so I can only imagine what she wrote. Last week it was "who us writing in my sons study buddy?" and "please lmk if anyone except her father and I is inquiring about my daughters schooling, no one else should be privy to her information" ha! I wrote a note saying she could go on the field trip!! And FDH signed it. And the school fees cheque magically made it to school. Funny how when we mention her actually paying for something if she had a problem with my signature on the cheque, oh well it makes it magically. Haha. Stupid!!

And So It Is...

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AndSoItIs's picture

We actually have gone in both years and filled out separate forms for our household (emergency contact/pick up etc) and had to provide the CO and they have use on Tuesday Wednesday Thursday Friday at the top and hers says use on Monday's. It's ridiculous but she is stupid and went up and changed the pick up form twice. For what reason? No one knows...I agree with you that the more people kids have looking out for them the better. I don't understand why these BMs aren't happy that their exs have found people that love their children too! It's almost like they want us to hate the skids so they have yet another reason to "hate" us.