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AngeLily's picture

Bm2 can be so strange. Friday, she texts dh saying ss7 has a high fever and is coughing and throwing up. Dh says okay, maybe he shouldn't go on the hour drive in the cold weather and just stay in bed. Bm2 says -that's what I was thinking and all of us are sick too.
Saturday she texts saying his fever finally broke, but still coughing and doesn't feel good. When do you want to meet? Dh says, we're all sick here too. He should probably stay resting and out of the cold, I don't want him to get sicker. She says "k"
I would love to give her the benefit of the doubt and say she just wanted to make sure they saw each other, but knowing how it usually goes it would have ended up being "keep him for the week, I'm sick"

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jennysue's picture

sounds like the BM deal with too. She'll find a way to never care for her own daughter when she's sick. She'll call us to come get her even though my husband and I both work and she doesn't

AngeLily's picture

He was looking out for his son, not wanting him to leave in the cold when he was still sick, just because his fever broke, but he is throwing up and coughing, doesn't mean he is feeling better. I don't expect my xh to take my sons if they are sick just because I don't want to deal with it anymore. I look out for their comfort and needs.
It wasn't because we are all sick too, that was just part of his text.
This is the same woman who says she is sick and then posts about her "amazing week in vegas". She also is the one reporting that she has no income to the state so they can pay for her knee surgery. She didn't say she was sick this weekend and to keep him all week. That is just an example of how things usually go. I also never said she was a raving bitch that didn't care about her kid. No, I don't think she thinks about him and his well being as much as she should and usually puts herself first, but I said she was strange and I would love to give her the benefit of the doubt but history has proven otherwise.

Doesnteatcrow's picture

I honestly would rather have my stepsons when they are sick. I remember when my husband and I were still auditioning (dating) ss10 (5 at the time) was home from school puking- I sat with him on the bathroom floor and rubbed his back and head as he puked and hugged him tight in between. His stupid a** mother shows up after work to get him and I handed her a bucket and said he just puked so you may need this. And she rolled her eyes and said "great- this is just gross"- my heart broke for him. When he gets sick now, either I take him or her mother does- she can't be bothered by it.