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Submitted by Anon2009 on Wed, 09/04/2013 - 9:03pm

then they have much bigger problems than ST can solve. If they are so bothered by the comments of strangers via the Internet, then I hope they would seek professional help ASAP.

This is the internet. If you don't like what you're reading, click on something else.

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Submitted by twoviewpoints on Wed, 09/04/2013 - 9:20pm

I was about to comment to one of your comments on that thread before it poofed. You were saying you changed your name without details because blah blah blah...like you were some victim of a nasty old attack by big bad ST posters. Yet when you came back with a name change you said who you use to be and that you changed because BM was cyber stalking you.

Now you're on this thread squealing 'get the F over it' at another poster. Kinda hard to take you young ones too seriously...just sayin

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Submitted by TheFreakingMaid... on Wed, 09/04/2013 - 9:29pm

I changed it initially because of the STers, but the second time was because of BM. Nice try attempting to put words in my mouth though Wink I do feel that the other blog was taken down, so it should be over. So...take it elsewhere, lady.

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Submitted by TheFreakingMaid... on Wed, 09/04/2013 - 9:37pm

Way to edit your patronizing comment so that it doesn't show as much of your arrogance.

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Submitted by realitycheckmom on Wed, 09/04/2013 - 9:50pm

ROTFLMAO!!!! I am so sick of these bitchy ass whiners who come on here and think they get picked on and then think it is because they are young when in REALITY it is people telling them that they are not special and that they don't have the right to do some of the very BM-like behavior that they seem to want to pull. Don't act like a little smart mouth punk and you won't get treated like one.

For the record, I was terrified to come back here after my FDH killed himself and tell people what happened because I was sure they would call crew and as most of the veterans know I was in a really bad place and I needed support. They rallied around me and supported me and they know me IRL now. They have a sixth sense of what is Crew and what isn't. My story seemed pretty fantastic to me. It blew my mind how fast things started to fly out of control and into crazy land. I realize now that when the crazy was so obvious I couldn't ignore it that I came here for help.

You should try to sit down and stop trying to be mean to veterans who are also vets at the stepmom wars and not just internet dweebs sitting in their momma's basement making up stories. If you are not an internet dweeb sitting in momma's basement and truly are a young stepmom who needs help then STFU and learn something.

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Submitted by TheFreakingMaid... on Wed, 09/04/2013 - 9:30pm

Yeah it did sound weird, after it was initially pointed out. Crazy-the things people will make up on here :/

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Submitted by queenofthedamned on Wed, 09/04/2013 - 9:15pm

AGREED! Funny how that blog just disappeared.

On a serious note, the internet can be harnessed as a tool for support. When I was going through infertility and miscarriages with my ex, I found a community that embraced and supported me. They meant the world to me, at a time when I was extremely vulnerable and lonely, AND in therapy. I have made some lasting friendships out of that group of ladies. However, had anyone attacked me and made me feel shitty about myself and my feelings, I'd have cut them off quicker than a gangrenous toe. Because I own my shit, for sure.

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Submitted by TheFreakingMaid... on Wed, 09/04/2013 - 9:34pm

*Like

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Submitted by realitycheckmom on Wed, 09/04/2013 - 10:13pm

Well she could be projecting or telling us what she is about to do, of course that assumes she has the guts to follow through. To be perfectly honest though, if you are serious about committing suicide you usually do not scream for attention. Statistically speaking most suicides do not leave notes. I have searched for over a year for anything that could be considered a note and there is nothing. Not a note for me, our daughter or his other kids, his parents that caused this, the crappy BMs, NO ONE. Not even a good bye or an I love you or even better an I am sorry. SO yeah suicide is not a joke and to think someone would have enough sense to put in about a website in their note to their mother about the mother's best friend? That is a special kind of unbelievable.

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Submitted by Anne Boleyn on Wed, 09/04/2013 - 10:08pm

This place kept me alive. Plain and simple. And my life and relationship are far better now because of these women.

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Submitted by TheFreakingMaid... on Wed, 09/04/2013 - 10:10pm

Lmao have fun, you guys. But for the sanity of your spouses, children, and Steps, cleanse yourself of that bitter outlook. Green isn't pretty, especially when it's due to someone else's happy life. Like this young lady Wink Off to read elsewhere. Good night, and good luck(to you and the people around you IRL lol Bless them..)

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Submitted by Igiveupsotornup... on Wed, 09/04/2013 - 10:23pm

dtzyblnd, can you tell me what this post is all about? I read it but I am confused was someone being a fake on here? I sure hope not as this is where I come for support. I asked you because I have seen you on my posts at times. Thank you, not to but in but my curiosity has me wondering!

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Submitted by realitycheckmom on Wed, 09/04/2013 - 10:28pm

An old combative poster made a new name up and came on claiming her best friend's daughter was in a coma and tried to committ suicide because of the veterans on this site picking on her. She claimed the daughter left a note to her mother saying to tell the poster that the site was horrible and the people were too mean. Just another bored basement dweller looking to get their rocks off.

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Submitted by Igiveupsotornup... on Wed, 09/04/2013 - 10:36pm

Thank you to both of you for explaining to me. Unreal that someone would do that. This place is a great place. I need it and I know many of us do. For someone to come out and lie (obviously if deleted account) is just plain nasty of them.

ditzy you cracked me up with that part about your body!! Too funny!

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Submitted by arjuna79 on Thu, 09/05/2013 - 8:20am

yknow as I was following all those "candy grams" I got a hit of this drama on the way. tho I missed the livestream of it - got online just as it went "poof"
Sad. and the fact that its so predictable - even sadder.

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Submitted by realitycheckmom on Wed, 09/04/2013 - 10:26pm

Would ya quit braggin' already. I have already offered to trade with you. Smile I just need to start doing PT and quit being a speshull snowflake. LOL

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Submitted by realitycheckmom on Wed, 09/04/2013 - 10:38pm

Yeah you can def. have some boobage. I need to ditch the excess stomach fat or get the muscles fixed. That kid wrecked them, LOL. You might stop PT for a while but I bet you start a lighter version up when your pants get too tight or something that was easy to do leaves you winded. Smile Lots of good soldiers do. I know you weren't bragging, that is the one thing you don't do unless it is your furbaby!

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Submitted by Igiveupsotornup... on Wed, 09/04/2013 - 10:38pm

True and for 36 and if you take out my lowered self esteem lately, I am not bad looking! After two kids, no stretch marks, smaller build and according to others nice legs! Not bragging though just saying and agreeing with ditzy that you don't have to be young to have a nice body!

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Submitted by realitycheckmom on Wed, 09/04/2013 - 10:46pm

This is so true. It's why I love you and think you are so beautiful, indide and out. Smile

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Submitted by Igiveupsotornup... on Wed, 09/04/2013 - 11:03pm

Yeah, I am starting to love ditzy too! Yes always inside beauty is the best. I needed this laugh tonight after my health issue post so thank you ditzy and the others who made my night tonight Smile