So…after having heard from BM Redneck & the SD's for nearly 2 years about how the girls (SD15 & SD14) don’t come around because I’m SOOOOOOOOOOOO mean & the recent text from SD14 about her pets being discussed at her freaking bday party (which is THIS Saturday)…SO received another text today from lovely SD14 & he kindly gave her my cell number (AGAIN) & told her to ask me because he certainly didn’t feel comfortable giving an answer FOR me…text goes like this…

SD14: So, it’s like totally up to u & if u don’t want to than I understand. I’ll pay Brets mom to do it if u won’t. I want my hair done & I’ll pay for everything. I want you to do it because ur really good at it & I trust u & I really want to look good when school starts. I want it done next month & I promise to pay for everything. Do you think that u could do my hair for me?
Me: Are you planning on visiting your dad & siblings next month?
SD14: Yes, I planned on seeing him a couple of times next month.
Me: Ok…I’ll do it when you’re here for a visit.

Don’t get me wrong…I have NO PROBLEM dyeing her hair…my issue lies in the fact that I’m getting the blame for their horrid behavior to their dad, even though I’ve done NOTHING to them! I do find it almost funny that I’ve been asked to do this 2 days before the little turd’s birthday party…I know that if I had said “no” that it would have created drama at the party between SD14 & BM Redneck firing nastiness in my direction, which quite frankly, I can’t be bothered with.

BTW, my SO was expecting me to send back a raging text to SD14 telling her to shove it up her butt & was surprised it took me a whole hour to start my mini rant about the whole fiasco. He told me that he "didn't expect me to do anything for SD" but that he "appreciates it because at least she'll visit to have her hair done". He laughed as I read the text & told me he wasn't going to suggest ANYTHING as far as my answer went.

I won’t hold my breath as far as her visiting a “couple of times” next month as we haven’t seen her since January & the only correspondence we’ve (or rather SO) has had with her have been nasty ranting styled texts.

Why oh why can't I just be left out of the drama & dye hair during visits? Why can't the stories they make up be about someone other than me? Why must I be the one they turn to if they need something done yet they crap on me the first chance they get? Why do I say "yes" when I'm just being used?

UGH!