So my SS confessed to me last night that he has been emailing his BM at school in the counselor’s office, and begged me not to tell his Dad. Of course I told his father but wow what a place he put me in by telling me these things. The relationship with BM is considerably strained due to her past behavior with the kids and my husband. Their custody actual went infront of a jury trial it was messy. My husband had a protective order on her for a year. She’s certifiable that’s for sure. She just likes to cause problems. We always allow communication between the BM and the kids so I feel this is just another way for this woman to try to squeeze information out of the boy, and stir up problems. I feel like the school still should have notified us as custodial parents that she had approached the school and requested this to be done. My SS told me that Mrs X the counselor said, “she was his Mommy’s special friend, that he could tell anything to and trust.” Granted this BM has filed 14 CPS cases on our family in the last year and a half. All of course come back unfounded and dismissed, but I can't explain to you what that stress does to a family to go through those investigations. I feel she’s just once again trying to stir up trouble! It’s frustrating the lack of maturity some people display, and even sadder for those innocent children hurt by those selfish "grownups". It’s not about emails, it’s about being a thorn in our sides.