SS Birthday Party
History repeats itself they say. Well last birthday party at a bowling alley with 20+ kids I decided to help my DH. BM told my DH that I needed to back off b/c I was trying to take away her motherhood. She fought with DH and DH's mother. Christmas, DH and BM fought. soooo what's going to happen this round? DH's family won't be attending b/c of how BM had ruined christmas, kept her son away from my wedding, and numerous fights amongst each other. DH still wants to go to this Bday party that BM is hosting even though DH's family is throwing SS a birthday party also. I feel like i'm going to be alone. I always feel like i'm alone.
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That's a steaming pile of
That's a steaming pile of crap in my book.. if DH's family is having their own party for SS then why does DH need to go to BM's party??? and you're not invited?? or you just choose not to go?
Oh no I'm going I'm not
Oh no I'm going I'm not showing that I have problems with her. But DH better know if she starts talking crap I'm not gonna shut my mouth. I'm going to tell her how inappropriate it is that SS's own mother feels its necessary to be negligent of her son current state and feels its more appropriate at his birthday party no less to be selfish. I'll enjoy that. As a matter of fact I hope she says something.
We always do separate
We always do separate parties. Easier that way and less drama.
UMM NO he should NOT be going
UMM NO he should NOT be going at all! That is wrong, he is having a party for him with his family and there is no need for him to go to the one bm is planing. WRONG WRONG WRONG! I would tell my dh just that too. But then again my dh wouldn't think of going. Sorry you are going through that. YOu need to somehow get your dh to see that it is wrong.
Update: Apparently its just
Update: Apparently its just his sisters that refuse to go. DH's mom and SD are going so I won't be alone. I love my mom in law...she'll lay it out on the table just as easy as BM can dish it.
These guys who cannot
These guys who cannot understand the meaning of "DIVORCED" PISS ME OFF!
She took away her own
She took away her own motherhood when she had a hand in screwing up her marriage. If she was married in the first place.
If she has a party for SS, he
If she has a party for SS, he shouldn't go. If he has one, she shouldn't go. Easy. You need to pick up the book "Boundaries". They apparently do not have any.
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Neither of them know the
Neither of them know the following words and phrases: Boundaries, CO-PARENTING,working together to raise their child, not fighting in front of their child, not making their needs and selfishness come before their child...BM doesn't understand all of those DH doesn't get boundaries or co-parenting.
DH needs to get away from
DH needs to get away from that BM freak. Separate parties for DH and his family....if he wants to go to her party, then he can go alone. They aren't together anymore...so neither are the parties.
She's the kind who ruins everything she touches. She is a hater, manipulator and no good thing will come from any contact with her. DH doesn't have to take an ass chewing from this woman!!!!!!!! WTF is wrong with him that he takes that bullshit? He is not beholden to that woman ANYMORE!!!
Fights can't happen if DH doesn't participate. My DH completely disengaged from BM and she sort of disappeared!! (She always reappears....but still, it got better, because he refused to listen to it.)
I know, it is a lonely feeling in the SMs shoes. Its like you don't really fit anywhere and have no back up. It really sucks.