so last sunday we took ss10 home and i was asked to come in and was told i deserved an apology. SS told me that he had an f on his report card. I told him if he could get rid of the f i would take him somewhere. I was apologized to b/c its not 1 f but 3 f's. He's not bringing any and I mean ANY books home from school and is telling his mom that his mom's bf hates him and doesn't love him b/c BF makes him sit at the table and read. Me, BM, and BM's BF had a nice long discussion on how to handle SS. Meanwhile DH seemed more concerned about the football game on TV than to come to an agreement on how to handle the situation. the next day I called the school and requested all his books be sent home with him. When I ask DH if he talked to BM about this he says "no I haven't" and makes no effort to talk to her about it. I don't get it. I don't want my baby to be the excuse to change and be there for my kid. I don't believe you should give up on your kid. I haven't given up on SS why should he?