Wow BM. Those must be some good meds you're on!
BM is on pain meds and smokes pot regularly, and she sells both. That came right from sd21 not too long ago when she was complaining about her mom. So her mom says she was hard on her kids when they were young and that's why they aren't assholes now. That they have good manners and are respectful. I can't say anything about her son, but as for sd21, dream on, bm. your daughter's manners could most definitely use some help (basic shit, like thanking people, has always been lost on her) and she is one of the most disrespectful people I have ever met. but you go ahead and pat yourself on the back for raising her up to be what she is and has always been. I'd be pretty damn proud too, if my kids were popping out kids that young and doing nothing else with their lives. and this is coming from a teen mom herself. raise your kids to do BETTER than you did, not to follow in your footsteps. this woman's ability to not see what is right in front of her and to think she sees something totally different would amaze me if I wasn't already immune to it after seeing it on a daily basis with her daughter for the past 9 years.
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"raise your kids to do BETTER
"raise your kids to do BETTER than you did, not to follow in your footsteps."
^THIS. I wish people would live by that more often.
No kidding...Our BM takes
No kidding...Our BM takes credit for SS15 and she barely raised the kid. I had to undo the damage she did every other week until we got full custody two years ago...No manners, can't look people in the eye, no social skills. Grades in the toilet and now A's and B's. Yeah you did all of that! She sees him once a month for two hours the last year and a half and she takes credit!
my mom is the same way. there
my mom is the same way. there was never a dad or sm in our lives, but she still didn't raise us. raising kids requires more than just being physically present in the same house as them. dogs can be in the same house, does that mean they raise kids? she likes to pat herself on the back about me because I'm normal, and coming from where I do, that is a big accomplishment, yet she takes none of the blame for my brother being the monumental fuck up that he is. how does that work?