Feel bad but laughing to myself
It's Wednesday and I came over after 8 for me to avoid SS today. He was still being put to sleep when i Arrived so I was quiet. I feel bad for SO. He hasn't been sleeping well without me here's this week. He looks terrible and now sounds kinda sick. We go to bed around 830 tonight. And SS starts. He coughs from his room then he comes in the hall and coughs. (He used to play sick alllllllll the time to get attention and finally told on himself a while back). Then he stomps thru the kitchen (outside our bedroom) coughing. We do nothing bc it's bs. I whisper to SO "are you awake". He is and answers. Less than 2 minutes later SS pees on himself to make his pee alarm go off. Ha. Caught red handed. He didn't attempt to use the bathroom just wanted attention or to control dad. SO now painfully aware that he and I both know what just happened is pissed. He lectures SS tells him he heard everything etc etc.
I feel awful for SO but he has to know I'm not lying about what the kid does sometimes if he'll stoop to pending on himself. Glad we are going together to the child psychologist soon.
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I know it is painfully
I know it is painfully obvious
Ugh I'm sorry you had to go
Ugh I'm sorry you had to go thru it also! The only thing I can think of that's more disgusting is if they threw up on themselves, which SS WAS doing at some point. He had a stomach problem when he was born that SO also had when he was small and it's very easy to make themselves throw up. He did that on purpose for a while also.
Otherwise the Kid is somewhat decent. It's really disturbing that he does this crap. He gets lots of attention, with or without me around. There's no need for this. I hope the child psychologist has some ideas. I'm glad I'll be going to speak to her as well since i don't think SO reports everything that's actually happening. We also need Grandma on board - the kid can be really sweet but he's no dummy he can also be very conniving.
IDK what all SO said to him last night but I heard him say "YES SIR... SAY IT YES SIR... not like a baby like a man ... Yes SIR!"
SO works really hard and he's parented this kid on his own since age of 2 I'm sure he feels responsible for him being a pain in the ass. I hate it for him.
We were making him buy his own pullups out of his money when he was still using them, he still has some that he has to take on sleep overs.
IDK if all of the times are on purpose but definitely at least 2 have for sure been, Last night being one and one other when he just stood outside our bedroom and peed in his pants and made the alarm go off right outside our door.
The kid has been thru alot with his Crazy mom trying to be in his life after being non existent for 6 years but this is not acceptable.
So tonight SO told SS only SS
So tonight SO told SS only SS will have an alarm that SO is no longer responsible for his peeing. (AtleAst tonight ) that SS has to do everything himself So far no alarm has sounded. L o l.