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tricked, i could kill DH!

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Submitted by bookgirl on Fri, 07/10/2009 - 12:12am

So today I had a very successful day at work. It was so wonderful (I adore my job). To top it all off, DH was wonderful. He'd had the day off & stayed home because he'd said he wanted a day with just him & BS1. I should've known that after breakfast in the morning he'd be shamed & guilted by MIL into getting them. She's always doing this to us & to be honest, I only complain because a part of me feels like a bad person for fighting stepmotherhood so much. I wish I could just welcome them unconditionally into my home...but I can't & mostly I'm ok with that. We haven't had a confrontation about this but I think at some point we will. I'm not afraid!! Anyway, wonderful day at work, never had a chance to call home & see what was up & then I get home to learn that my home has been invaded. Here they are camped out on my floor, bossing DH around like they're the ones paying $1000/mo for his upkeep. To top it off, we all have a nice trip Saturday. One night left. I didn't even get a warning! I could kill DH. And in-laws are coming on the trip. I need wine...make that tequila

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Submitted by Amazed on Fri, 07/10/2009 - 8:07am

I'm confused. So he invited the inlaws to your house and didn't talk to you about it first??

"We all have different desires and needs, but if we don't discover what we want from ourselves and what we stand for, we will live passively and unfulfilled.”

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Submitted by bookgirl on Fri, 07/10/2009 - 10:24am

DH & I live in the same town as in-laws & they went to breakfast with us yesterday. Then, when I had gone to work, MIL pressured DH into getting SKs. That way I had neither a say in the matter nor was I aware of it. It was like getting slapped mid air with a fly swatter after a great day at work, coming home all happy & proud of myself to this without even a warning. ~Bookgirl~

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Submitted by Amazed on Fri, 07/10/2009 - 10:28am

getting hit by a truck. why would he do something so insensitive? Sorry he pulled such a punk move. Bust out the vodka:)

"We all have different desires and needs, but if we don't discover what we want from ourselves and what we stand for, we will live passively and unfulfilled.”

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Submitted by bookgirl on Fri, 07/10/2009 - 10:29am

That with all this family bliss, the in laws promised SKs a trip Saturday where they will come along but take a seperate vehicle, smile & play with SKs, and not lift a finger to do any of the not fun part of helping with them. Then MIL will say how tired out they make her. ~Bookgirl~