Does anyone else hate there mil worse then your husbands ex? A little backstory, my husband married his ex young and only because she got pregnant. Since they had no money and his ex was in school they moved in with his mother. He worked all the time and his ex not the maternal sort anyway went to school full time and studied the rest so in the evenings when his mother got home she would watch my ss. Thats great but fast forward two years they get divorced and his ex moves out with the kid and he gets an apartment with his friend. Fast forward again, with his job at the time and childsupport he had to move back to his moms because he couldn't afford it on his own. So his mom has always been involed with ss. So when my husband met me he got more independant, he was making more money and was more selfconfident with me so he moved out and him and I got a house, got engaged, had a baby, got married. You would think this would make his mother happy her son had grown up was taking responsibilty had a wife he loved and a home. No, she acts jealous and controlling like a lot of the exwives on here, not like a mother at all. So we get ss every other weekend and since I don't have a car she is picking him up on friday nights, she asked if ss could spend the night at her house those nights and we said sure since my husband worked till after 11pm anyway. But then she wouldnt' have him ready for us the next day she would try to keep him latter and later on saturday. He is here to see his father not grandma she needs to get that. So this last weekend we got ss on an extra weekend so my husband took of work on friday and we spent a 3day weekend with him, had a good time went out and made a day of it, even got a sitter for our baby so it could be all about ss. She gets PISSED when she finds out, says that my husband should have told her ss was here so that she could see him. She never wants to see our babygirl, she has told my ss and my husband at different times that my ss is her favorite. What the HELL? My husband did stand up to her and say that no he is here to see me I don't have to tell you , so what does she do, she acts like a teenager and changs her facebook profile pic, it was a picture of her and my husband (which is wierd to begin with) to one of just herself as soon as they get of the phone. She is controlling and trys to tell me how to run my home even though my husband and I own our home dont use credit and my home is always spotless, in conparison her house is filthy she has two mortgages and uses credit cards so that she can live in a fancy neighborhood. Yes I am awful because we live in a modest neighborhood(not bad but modest) and don't get another car we cant afford till we pay of the one we have. I'm sorry that was long but I needed to vent this women is driving me cray