So last week SD17 called SO about how BM's boyfriend came home and sat everybody down and told them he had a new girlfriend and they all needed to move out.... then of course the mother of BM called my SO mom.. and the ball was rolling with flapping of the jaws. SO phone ringing from SD17 and dramatics and of course his mom with the "gossip" she was just informed of.
I am pretty sure I posted SO came here to my work to talk to me about it and I asked him to leave. WELL here is an update on that. Wait... first let me just say this. I told SO not to believe a single word out of SD17 mouth because all it is is lies after lies after lies. I mean seriously she makes up crap about me 24-7 why wouldn't she do it to her SF? Of course she would but OH HELL NO does anybody listen to me? No. SD17 wouldn't lie about that bla bla bla bla...........

Well it's now been what 8 days since that big drama filled day.. and are the kids homeless? NO. Is BM homeless? NO! Did the bad jerk of an BF (their words not mine) kick them out? NO! Do I even believe any of it happened? NO! All lies and bullshit. The boys haven't said a word. In fact SS14 the one who I have a great relationship with texted me saturday to see what I was up to.. I asked him if he was ok. He said yes we are all out yardsaling and having a great day. Then on FB (of course this is out of the mouth of SO mother's neighbors) BM had posted how great life is that she "loves" her life and her boyfriend and her kids. That things couldn't be more perfect. How do I know this? Oh well remember how I have posted that we can't freaken go to SO mother's without having to hear all about BM and what is going on in her daily life.... well of course the neighbors chime in too. Can't do anything without having the conversation turn to BM. And the other moutful we got was how she is getting straight A's in college and how she just got a 90,000 scholarship. Well to be honest that is great that a mom of three kids can accomplish so much. How about helping out your kids who are all getting D's and the daughter who is going to have to take a few classes over next year due to failing. But what do I know? I am "just" a girlfriend. Oh and how about lets be thankful the exhusband pays her way so she can get those things?! Because she refuses to work. She refuses to do alot of things because damn it this is owed to her. She is entitled to get on with her life.. oh mercy aren't we ALL!

So once again SD17 interupts the entire week with made up bullshit drama so her "daddy" gets all worked up about where they will live what is going to happen. Well SO needs to worry about his kids YES. But feeling sorry for BM because her BF found somebody new. HELL NO.......

Also an update on how I have been handling things. I am doing much better. I have pretty much just disengaged from alot. He is noticing and I can see he is worried. Told me I am acting weird.... I'm not acting weird I'm just getting on with my life. you can either join me or be stuck in your old life. But either way I'm moving forward.