Hello im new here and i just been trying to find something to get it off my chest but im absolutely fed up. My SS is 13 yrs old i have been with his father for 5 yrs & we have a 3 yr old son together. My stepson has been really getting on my nerves i cant see him or hear him talk yes its that bad & sounds mean i met him when he was 8 yrs old. He is annoying he hasnt been in school because we just moved to a different county but he is already enrolled & ready to start THANK GOD but its social distance learning. Well during a week off he has been waking up pretty to be playing video games all day like all day dad comes home from work doesnt say a word so who has to be the one to tell him to turn it off i do. Before we moved he was in the bathroom taking forever & i knock & ask him what are you doing he said taking a shower i was ok but 45 mins is too long, so he gets out & there is blood everywhere i was like what happen he was like its my nose i cant control it when it starts bleeding i was like yes you do you have done it all the time & it has never been a problem. He talks back cusses while playing games when he gets something new he shows it off to everyone & ask them what they think like hello no1 cares in my opinion he goes to bed late you still have to tell him to brush his teeth take a shower clean upur room put deodorant on go to bed etc its like wouldnt a teenager know how to these things we moved to a bigger place so he can have his own room & wants to spend the majority in my room always asking if we can watch a movie NOOOO go in your room thats why we got a bigger place why dont you read practice your writting anything his mom is not in his life his dad is always working so i have to be the one putting up with him while raising my own child that kid doesnt do anything around the house NOTHING i dislike him because his dad gives him to much freedom & whatever i say to his kid is a problem there are times where i want to up & leave with my child or just have them moved out but i love my boyfriend & it holds me back because my son loves his dad im stuck that kid is so irresponsible always wants attention like a little kid always talking non stop eats with his mouth open idk i can go on & on about him i feel bad putting him down like this but gosh wish it was just me my boyfriend & our son life will be better i dont regret my son i love him to death i just regret who i had with wish i had it with someone that is a first time parent as me but its too late now