Im recently engaged to a single mother of a six year old girl. I love them both to death and only want to see them both happy. We have been together a few years but just with in the past two i have been involved with her daughter. The BD has never been in the picture since she was born and denies that hes even hers. My fiancee's daughter is still very unsure about me she knows that were eventually going to get married, but just seems iffy about it all. She is very scared of the unknown and thats what this is. The reason im here is to get some ideas on how to help her feel more secure about the whole situation and let her know that everything is going to be alright. But my main problem seems to be with my fiancee's family she has several sisters both older and younger all in the picture full time and just arent helpful to the the situation they always seem to ask the wrong questions that get my SD thinking and worried and her mother who does not seem to have much faith in us. Truthfully I dont care about them i just want to build a grate relationship with this wonderful little girl and have her hopefully call me daddy one day i know she will never see me as id like her to and im ok with that. So if you have any questions about the situation feel free to ask and as for suggestions please pass them on Id be beyond grateful.