Do not invest or involve yourself in your spouses legal battle. If I have learnt anything, it's that my husband dislikes how right I was far more than if I had been wrong. Your husband needs to handle his business himself.
Sally, similar but not the same. My DH tried therapy, lawyers letters, parenting his own child, laying down boundaries, being firm with BM etc. He stinks at taking the matter to court, which again is his issue and I won't own it.
Well I wish you luck for the court battle. It's such a pain in the arse to have to go through all this
I agree with the others that you should not be making this so much your problem
I also agree with the plan to send the stuff to the grandmothers and leave it there - let those related to actual child have her visit there and sort the stuff out. You want to have little or no part in it.
I have been reading up on avo's agreeing to or losing an avo case is not the end of the world. Its when you are BREACHED on an AVO.
And while there is a grain of truth to the avo (he did take her to her room) the rest is made up shit. There is nothing stopping her from lying again and then he has a criminal record.
So i will help fight the AVO. I will not go to war for this child and do family court. That's his choice ( and none of my money is going to family court) MIL is paying for this AVO stuff.
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Do not invest or involve
Do not invest or involve yourself in your spouses legal battle. If I have learnt anything, it's that my husband dislikes how right I was far more than if I had been wrong. Your husband needs to handle his business himself.
Sally, similar but not the same. My DH tried therapy, lawyers letters, parenting his own child, laying down boundaries, being firm with BM etc. He stinks at taking the matter to court, which again is his issue and I won't own it.
Well I wish you luck for the
Well I wish you luck for the court battle. It's such a pain in the arse to have to go through all this
I agree with the others that you should not be making this so much your problem
I also agree with the plan to send the stuff to the grandmothers and leave it there - let those related to actual child have her visit there and sort the stuff out. You want to have little or no part in it.
Let us know how it all goes either way
I have been reading up on
I have been reading up on avo's agreeing to or losing an avo case is not the end of the world. Its when you are BREACHED on an AVO.
And while there is a grain of truth to the avo (he did take her to her room) the rest is made up shit. There is nothing stopping her from lying again and then he has a criminal record.
So i will help fight the AVO. I will not go to war for this child and do family court. That's his choice ( and none of my money is going to family court) MIL is paying for this AVO stuff.