This is my first blog. I am a 32-yr-old mother of four and am currently engaged to a 29-yr-old man who has one 7-yr-old son. He helps me raise my children as if they were his own. We have been together for nearly 5 years. I thought that the mother of his child (29 also) was done being petty and playing games but, when she found out that we became engaged this past Mother's Day she reverted back to her childish ways. First she kept him from seeing his child the following weekend, then she told my fiancee that since he decided to move on with his life she was moving to California. She has even gone as far as to post Facebook messages saying that she doesn't believe in the whole "step parent thing" yet, she didnt have a problem calling me to ask me personally if I could babysit her other son (my future stepson's older brother). . . on NUMEROUS occassions! She has a history of holding his son over his head as bait whenever she sees fit. She threatened to move five years ago when he and I first started dating. Even after his child support is paid and he gets his son for the weekend she still asks for money claiming it's needed for help to pay her bills. She seems to have this twisted mindset that he can't be happy in life if its not with her yet, she claims that she does not want to be with him. I'm at wits end trying to figure out this girl. :? :? :? :? :? :? :?