So my husband and I have finally put our foot down with bio mom. We are going to take her to court for custody of my step child. My husband and I live in a great school district and city, low crime, low poverty. BM lives 2 hours away in the opposite scene. We had signed the little one up for a preK drawing to make sure we got a school that had a 10 out of a 10 rating and we did. My husband asked her if we could enroll the child in school her response was "He doesn't need preK he's in daycare". The facts are this, he is in a preK daycare when he is with us, when he is with her there is no schedule, day care, structure or boundaries. We are going to do everything in out power to get him into our home full time!