SD16 just text me on, could I please change our plans so her and dad can go to her grandmothers, her anxiety is acting up (like usual) and she needs some daddy time, exact words, since she has not been with him for 2 days. I told her you will have to talk to your dad we made these plans awhile ago. Then she says why do you guys have to go out for new years? I told her I think you need to talk to your dad...She states I already did and got no where so i figured it was because of you..... :jawdrop: (No little girl your 16 not 6 you will be fine home with my 20 year old, his girlfriend and my mother lives right down the street, 3 houses away)....I told her we had plans so if dad wants to go there is nothing I can do...She states whatever I think I'm gonna try to stay with my mother than see how dad likes that!!! I was like WHAT????? So I forward it to DH.....He called me and said oh really.....Guess then SD called DH crying and told him I was being unreasonable in thinking I can make plans when we have her....DH told her you are 16 not a baby and this is your mothers weekend you told us you were staying there the rest of the week so stop with the attitude and all this drama and BS...Well guess its daddy's turn to be the bad guy now!!!! God I hope she stays with BM for 2 weeks that would be SWEET!!!!!