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daisy0202's picture

Well my Christmas went ok....It wasnt that bad...would of changed some things...had no time really with DH but overall it was not so bad. We had SD the whole time....she was attached to DH like clue and was mad when he went to bed....It was ridiculous!!! Our Xmas eve party went really well....I was a great host, didnt eat but drank plenty!!!! After hearing the night befor we will be having SD full time from now on I needed a few drinks...So, I DID!!!! Hubby thought it was cute, I did not the next morning :O ....My boys had a great holiday and thats really all that mattered...They were very happy with there things...SD was to I have to say...She was nice and that is a change, Lets hope it lasts....She was very happy to hear I was working today and DH is home all week...Funny thing my son 20 said to me xmas night...I guess everytime I got up SD would jump in my seat to sit closer to DH...My son says "mom whats up with SD, as soon as you get up she jumps in your seat and hangs all over DH, its weird"...LOL I just laughed and told him theres issues....Hes like "you think"....Love my boys....They were attached to the TV xmas day with new games they got for PS....I hope everyone had a good xmas but by the looks not everyone can.... Sad ..Today makes day 4 of having SD full time...I'm already not liking it...Were going to a New Years party and I already told my boys...SD is already complaining her anxiety is acting up and called her mom just to fight with her last night....I told DH plans are already made SD was supposed to be with BM but...So DH tells me we are going no matter what even if SD has to stay with MIL...Didmnt think we had to worry about a 16 year old and a babysitter.....BTW son 20 will be home also....Let the drama begin!!!!!

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giveitago's picture

We had a great time, good food, the company of elder SS and our adopted son, it was great fun!
I was saddened that SD was not going to be with us for Christmas, her furlough from detention center did not come through. Her twin brother came around because he wanted something, as usual, and I wished him a merry Christmas and gave him his stocking. NOT ONE word of greeting from him, or asking where his sister was, or did we have a nice time...NOTHING but I WANT...he had the audacity to tell his dad what he wanted for Christmas too...what he will be getting is SOME debt forgiveness. SD will just be so pleased to see us that she will not even think about Christmas gifts, we will take her shopping for nice clothes and hair stuff. I imagine her hair is getting long now, she's been incarcerated for nearly a year, she's being released in a week or so. She's paid the price for the choices she made, her brother still has to feel that jolt! They made 18 in the fall so are accountable for their own actions anc choices but we'll still guide them. Ohh some good news, it's no longer all my fault for the way SS 18 is now...the blame has transferred totally onto his sister! He had a conversation with his grandmother, MIL and she listened to him and just nodded and shook her head and probably gave him some cash for Christmas, I am guessing that's the reason he went anyhow...he had the audacity to ASK for his baby bonds from her recently! They are safe, MIL has them in a file folder, and it's a decent amount so SS thought he had an automatic right to them. They are made out to DH! Tough shit kiddo!

daisy0202's picture

Its great to hear this...I wish I felt this way about SD....But I have bent over backwards for her..I know her relationship with BM is not good but she just tries so hard to get BM to just put her first and it never happens...So being the mom I am I have included her in everything I have ever done...I talk to her, do alot for her, take her shopping, I had a girls day with her once and its like she gets mad at me for it...So its been 5 years and I can only be slapped so many times....She never thanks me, she is rude, she has been mean to my youngest who is 14 now so he dont want anything to do with her and its just a mess....We all get along but its the remarks, the rudeness, and her just thinking I'm the maid and not her fathers wife...I wish we could just be a happy family but i do not see this happening... SUCKS!!!! and now we have her full time and it is making me sick...