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MIL is at it again..... she wants to "save" BM1

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Submitted by DaizyDuke on Wed, 03/23/2016 - 1:48pm

Was just talking to DH and he said that MIL told him that "they" think BM1 is doing meth... again...(this is not the first time I have heard this) and that "they" are trying to figure out what "they" can do. I asked him who the fuck "they" was and why the fuck MIL would even be involved in this??? He said that apparently MIL is concerned about BM1's four girls NONE OF WHOM ARE RELATED TO MIL IN ANY WAY! And I'm assuming she is most likely in cahoots with GBM who is the biggest waste of space there is and that's who "they" is. BM1 has SD18 (with DH) 3 girls around the ages of 11,9, and 7 (with baby daddy #2) and another girl around the age of 2 (with baby daddy #3) DH said he shut MIL down for the 1000000 time, told her he doesn't want to hear about this crap, he could care less what happens to BM1 and those girls are not his problem, and not her problem.

There are many, many people out there who should not have children, I don't know why the fuck MIL thinks she needs to be involved in this in any way. I am so sick to death of this woman.

On another note, SD18 will be coming "home" when she graduates from HS in Aunt J state the end of June. She will be here for about 6 weeks before she goes back to Aunt J. state to attend college. DH informed me today that he told SD that he does not want her around GBM/BM while she is home and that she should stay with MIL... or with us. GRRRRRRR... I am really trying not to stress about this. It's only 6 weeks, so I guess there's that... I just don't want it to be at all. And it pisses me off that he already told SD this without speaking with me first. >:{

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Submitted by DaizyDuke on Wed, 03/23/2016 - 2:43pm

meh, I really don't speak to BM... I ignore her calls if she calls me and the only time I go there is if it's family gathering so I can see SILS and FIL and I just stear clear of her. DH has lit into her I can't count how many times about her gossiping and sticking her nose where it doesn't belong and about here sharing information with him about BMs.... because He.doesn.t.care. But she just doesn't seem to get it, or she just doesn't care.

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Submitted by robin333 on Wed, 03/23/2016 - 2:23pm

Oh Daizy, I hope she doesn't stay with you and DH. Six weeks is a long time.

MIL needs a new hobby.

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Submitted by Last In Line on Wed, 03/23/2016 - 4:22pm

You and DH can't control what his mom does, but you can control your reaction to her. Shut it quickly down any time she brings it up. If she continues, then walk away. Let her meddle if she chooses, some of those old women live for that.

Hope the situation with SD18 works out...honestly with the MIL being in the mindset of getting into BMs business, I'd almost think it would be best for SD to stay with you and DH to keep her from getting pulled into some cahoots with MIL. I know 6 weeks seems like forever...