Hell just froze over everyone!!!

BM#1 has moved to our town, come to find out today when SO went to get SD12 that she has already moved on from her last relationship and living with this new BF whom is supposed to have his divorce final in a few weeks. (not my deal, been there) But when SO was there I guess he met him and he seems really nice and I guess is not afraid to put BM in her place. He has custody of his two kids girls 5 & 6. Also has two older ones that don't live with him. 13 & 18.

SO and BM#1 were sitting down to figure out the two on two off summer routine. I called because I was not able to get a hold of SD11 (a long story that made me so mad) and when he finally answered he told me what they were doing I reminded him to remember to get the weekend we have vacation and SD8's birthday weekend. I hear BM say "this is the way it is and I am not adjusting anything" I got pissed and hung up.

SO got home and I vent to him and also talked to SD12 because I guess some kids called her fat while she was playing outside. I wanted to know how she was feeling and just talk to her about moving and new school and being excited she lives down the street (not excited to use the same stores as BM but I guess I can deal with it)

I came out of my room with SD12 and SO was on getting off the phone with BM#1. SO said " I am supposed to tell you sorry from BM#1 for not wanting to be flexible on the visitation, I guess BM#1's BF put her in her place and told her that she needs to be more flexible since we now live in the same town and how she needs to put SD12 first and I guess BM called to say SHE WAS SORRY"!!!

WTF.... Those are words I thought I would never hear. BM is SORRY !!!

DAMN I think I might like this new BF of her's already. I guess SO said BF is not afraid to put her in her place plus he is older 10 years or so and has been married twice and in the miliatry so he doesn't put up with shit.