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FSS9 vandalized BM's car

discfocused's picture

Well FDH got a phone call today from BM. Apparently fss9, took a rock and scratched bm's car because he was mad at her for something. You know, he probably would have gotten away with it seeing as his lying skills have improved; but the brilliant child not only scratched his first name into her car, but his last name as well. SHe then asked FDH, "what are WE going to do about this". He said "we arn't going to do anything". He did it to your car on your time. I am still waiting for the phone call from her saying he should pay for half of it. BM still has not realized that her son may be 9 but is at the maturity level of a 5 year old and needs to be watched 24/7. Normally I would say fdh should step in and help with dicipline but she only wants his help with "her kids" when it benefits her and he is just the "sperm donor", so I see no reason for him to help her. Especially not with him paying $1000 a month in CS.

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Ommy's picture

why was he out side long enough with a rock to carve his name into in the first place?

Plus shouldn't a 9 year old already know not to do that? I think BM needs some parenting classes.

HadEnoughx5's picture

LOL... Biggrin I'm sorry but SS writing his first and last name into BM's car is priceless. I wouldn't help BM either because you know if that happened on DH's time, BM would care less.

BSgoinon's picture

My cousin used to write her brothers name on everything when she was little. The walls, inside books everywhere. For the longest time Johnny was getting is SO much trouble. Until Jenny got caught doing it once. LOL Smart kid.

I will never forget the time SS threw a rock and shattered BM's windshield. Then she called Dh and told him he needed to pay for it. His response "he didn't trow that rock from my house, that's what you get for not watching your kid". LMAO. He was like 3 years old. I am not real sure why she wasn't watching him close enough to be able to stop him from throwing a rock at her car.

discfocused's picture

I have told both of them that. BM has already been forced by family services to take classes.. He does want attention. If you look at my blogs... her attention is trying to find the next loser to move into her house.