I have a SS8 1/2. I feel really angry at the fact that my husband and I were supposed to claim our SS in our taxes. He has 50/50 custody and it's nowhere in a court order the BM can claim SS every year. BM also has another child that is 5 y.o.. I am just fed up she had the audacity to put him on the taxes once again this year when in December there was a verbal agreement that this year we would be claiming him. BM also had the nerve to give my husband the wrong social security number (Probably so we could get in trouble with the IRS!). Now, everyone will be getting an audit!
BM doesn't even pay for anything and yet still receives child support. BM is an alcoholic loser who has been married/divorced twice, has another child after my SS and has already been evicted literally without exaggeration 4 different times and moved 10 different times since my SS was born. Can't stand her, she is a liar and is constantly excusing herself for all the Shit she has to done to us due to the fact she is a "survivor" and what she has been through while growing up. I'm still mesmerized about the lack of parenting skills she has and how manipulative she is. You should see how she cries in court and all the lies she has made up. She is still even "concerned" about my husband cheating on me. She really hates me because I'm tall, young, and skinny, and of course pretty and she is short, fat and pizza face! She needs to move on. BM is always complaining about how my husband was two-timing me and her when my SS was born. CHild Please!!!!! She has done absolutely everything in her power to try to separate my husband and I! it is not my fault she had a couple of one night stands with my husband and then decided to have a child with a complete stranger.
I'm 100% upset too that the court doesn't seem to take this child away from her when it is clearly she doesn't even take good care of him. The current house she just moved into, is a 2BR/1B home in the city with a garage where an illegal immigrant family are living; To add to that, her new boyfriend and new lost-found half brother is living in the couch, plus her other 5-y.o! You have got to be kidding me! If it was my H and I doing that, we would have already lost any type of rights we have so vicariously won in the court. BM is always drinking alcohol and Drunk driving while with her children, and of course they are trainned to lie already about everything to "protect mommy". Her other child's father is a dead beat dad and used to subject my SS to Domestic violence. Even then the court never did anything at the time while she was with him. After when she got divorced/separated, the truth came out and still nothing is ever done!