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Submitted by elliking on Tue, 05/14/2013 - 5:50pm

just posted a new question about a step child problem i'm having.... does it ever seem like when you marry the man you were suppose to be with and start your life that you just wernt meant to be with his kid...... i love my husband and when we got married i just assumed his daughter would come around... she didnt. she hates me hate hate hate. to the point were it is uncomfortable to be in the same room together. if i say anything she glares and stares at me. me and my husband are meant to be in a weird way all of our weirdness lines up and i doubt there is another man like him out there. it just so weird to think by committing to him i committed myself to such a hard life with her. i feel like a bitch, but it is what it is.

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Submitted by whatwasithinkin on Tue, 05/14/2013 - 8:23pm

I think that may be true in some instances, gut mostly I think that these kids are under the impression that it is OK for mom to have a new spouse because she is a women and girls are programmed that they need a man. But daddy should stay alone forever at the beck and call because he is a man and strong and can be alone. Especially the girls. Stepdaughter are the worst at possessiveness it is in the nature to be jealous.

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Submitted by kellyyy on Tue, 05/14/2013 - 9:41pm

Awww coming of age...the moment a child realizes their parents are human and make mistakes Smile my DH is the weakling. he couldnt survive on his own, but maybe his kids are confused. I am stronger.

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Submitted by Disneyfan on Wed, 05/15/2013 - 6:51am

,I don't believe in the soul mate or one true love idea.

I view men as a package. That package can include their values, morals, work ethics, money management skills, kids, BM, parenting style, faith, family...

If any part of that package causes problems in my life that the man refuses to fix them, I walk away.