So I told my boyfriend about joining this, and was going over some of the termonology. As soon as I said BM he said "Bowel Movement?" I corrected him that is means Biological Mother ... he said "Nope Bowel Movement works."

Now onto the number one thing that is bothering me today. My SS11 was on the phone with his BM and half sister. I opened his door to let him know he didn't take the dog out long enough, she poo'd in the living room. He immediately hushes me and tells me, "I'm on the phone with my Mom." So I told him, "That's cool, but you didn't take the dog out long enough, she shit on the floor." He looked me and said. "Sorry but I'm on the phone with my Mom."

So I cleaned up the floor, and went about business. It really bothers me though. Normally a phone call with BM is:

Hey Mommy!

Hey kid!

What's up?

Just seeing how you'ore day is going.

It's good. Okay love you bye!

Then he hangs up. This is the first time in a long time he stayed on the phone with her for more than 2 minutes. I'm glad he calls her or she calls him whenever. The cell phone for him is because she lives an hour away and when he's at her house he can call us.

Is it normal for a SS to be like this? I mean I know he's 11 and hitting those BEAUTIFUL puberty years but he's been acting out a lot more since he came home about 2 weeks ago. When my BF and I got together he was a total SHIT when he came home. However he eventually evened out, this time he's been HELL to deal with some days.