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The Logic of Zip

Endora's picture

Part two of "Evening at SRK's"-see recent blog.

Finally at 1:00am-Zippy (almost 17)-trudges through the door-DH was nervous about Zippy walking for an hour at night as well he should be-but DH has finally wrapped his head around the fact that Zippy needs to learn things the "hard way" or he does not "get it".

Zippy is not pleased with Daddy-kins-starts in with his condescending attitude-

"Dad, you always said if I "needed" a ride you would come and get me".

DH: "Zippy, what I meant when I was talking to you and Charlie 2 (my bio son) -was that if you guys have been partying or your designated driver could not get you home-Endora and I would make every effort to bring you home-i.e. pick you up or get a taxi".

Unbelievable-Zippy would only hear "ride anytime" from a conversation 6 months ago about drinking and driving!!!! What is even more unbelievable is that he used that same excuse the last time he needed a ride when buses stopped!

Zippy goes on to extrapolate about how "plans" that we never even knew about fell through and that is how he found himself in the situation he is in, blah blah blah-when DH sent Zippy off to bed.

Zippy is now ready to get his driver's license-Zip's grandfather has a car for him-I say to DH isn't that great-Zip gets handed everything!

DH says-"Endora, every time I "give" something to that boy, he wrecks it-I think he better "earn" this privilege!!

Me: :O

DH slips in and out of guilt parenting Zippy-but he is finally "getting" the fact that if this young man does not get his head out of his butt-DH is in for a LONG RIDE (Pun intended) with Zippy hanging off of him.

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Endora's picture

SRK's older "in charge" brother (I have no idea where the parents are in this home)-kicked Zip out-if you heard these teens game with their expensive sound equipment shattering crystal and loud boisterous "sound effects" they make along with the electronics-you would know why even an older teen might want to get some sleep at some point!

SRK and Zip thought with parents away-they would game all night-but that did not work out....

Step Parenting – you might need to step back before you step in something!

Selkie's picture

Yay to DH for finally getting it! He's slow but there's progress. Smile

Everyones Interest's picture

that I have a SD6 and as of yet she hasn't gotten into vidoe games.

One of her friends has a DS and she ever so briefly wanted one, however that hasn't some up in converstation for a long time.

I have seen kids absolutely glued to their hand helds all with the natural side effects of:

Wacky movements;
Strange vocal noises;
Jumping and/or convulsing;
etc...

I would like to think that when I have bio's I will ban all electronic games from the house. I realize that is wishful thinking!

Endora's picture

Burned his hand working with a deep fryer (he is training to be a chef at a "middle" of the road restaurant)-

He had no cash for a cab ride home and the restaurant usually pays (whether or not Charlie 2 did not want to "make a big deal" out of it or not-I will never know)-so I waited up to pay for the cab-ironically at the same time Dh was pacing the floor waiting for Zippy....

Burn required some medical attention, and there is a lovely huge blister (of course Charlie 2 protesting all the way "Mom-you are making a huge deal out of NOTHING" -but no scars etc.-gotta love working in restaurants!

Thanks for asking!

Step Parenting – you might need to step back before you step in something!