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soon to be xh is freaking stalking me now!

enoughisenough2me's picture

I have told him over and over through e-mail to leave me ALONE. well, he has scheduled his classes the same night as me at the same school KNOWING where i go. my xh called and said that he's not positive, but that he thinks he saw him sitting in a parking lot across the street from my mom (where i live) the driver turned his head as he pulled out.

he is doing everything he can to get me to himself, and comments through e-mail are making me want to get a restraining order. attorney is ready to nail him. but sometimes that only makes matters worse (((biting nails in nervous behaviour)))

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DeeDeeTX's picture

Borrow "the gift of fear" from the library. They have a whole section on stackers and how to deal with them.

Bottom line, absolutely no contact whatsoever, even telling them to leave you alone. They feed off of and thrive on any contact, even if it's negative. Change your number, email, etc and just ignore them completely.

The book is much bettered though and goes into a lot more detail. Please borrow or buy it!

ThatGirl's picture

Your xh called to tell you he thinks your fxh is stalking you outside of your mother's house? Isn't that a little weird?

enoughisenough2me's picture

x was dropping my dd off from visitation, he wasn't stalking me, and i EXPECT him to say something because our daughter lives with me.