This sums it up.
I read this not to long ago and thought to myself...wow, it's almost as if they were in my house watching my life with EH. I've tried to figure out how this happened. How did I let him do this. Not to toot my horn but I do consider myself an inteligent woman, but I was really too stupid to see the warning signs.
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He had me believing he was a
He had me believing he was a war vet. Turns out (and I got this from his grandma) he did enlist, but he failed the mental eval twice and they sent him home. All of is PTSD "flash backs" were really just him being violent. It hit me yesterday, I have never seen his dog tags. What vet does not keep a pair of his dog tags.
So, he is just a flat out
So, he is just a flat out liar, as well.
You are not stupid, we have all put up with crap we should not have from someone, at some point.
You did something about it.
I can't see it at work. You
I can't see it at work.
You were NOT "too stupid to see the warning signs"! You just put up with HIM telling you crap like that, don't do it to yourself now! Yes, he fooled you into thinking he was someone he's not. That just makes him a good actor, not anything to do with you. The important thing is you were smart enough to get OUT when you realized what was going on!
Thank you.
Thank you.
He did, my friends husband.
He did, my friends husband. The next day my friend and her husband came to where I work and he told me there is something not right about what he says and that I needed to be very careful. That's when I started looking into things.
Evil, don't blame yourself.
Evil, don't blame yourself. This was all him, not you. I'm sure that most people would of believed him. That is how these kind of people are. They fool everyone. Concentrate on moving forward. Don't dwell on the past.
HUGS!
I found out from Inbred he
I found out from Inbred he did the same thing to her. Only she tried to press charges but it was covered up. Why?? Because his mother is in good with the judges, police, and prosecutors of their county. He's never had to pay for any violent outbreaks he's had, and what county was this?? The same one EH had talked me into moving to. I'm sure glad I didn't, but we were looking at houses and land out there. If he would have done this there, his momma would came and cleaned everything up before the blood dried, as she always did.
I keep my relovler with me at
I keep my relovler with me at all times and back up loaded 9mm in the glove box. There's one rifle in the house and kids are taking a gun safety and shooting course this next weekend.
Thank You.
Thank You.