So DH texts me and says that BM has 6 days to get out of her apartment. Ok fine. They already found a new place. Whatever I could care less. THEN he texts me and says that his sister told him something that really is upsetting him. So I bite and call him.

Apparently back in June/July 09 Atilla's stepdad 'hit' her when she wouldn't stay in bed and go to sleep. I asked DH did he actually hit her or did he spank her? He admits that SF spanked her and it was a quick swat on the bum. I said well she wouldn't go to sleep and I know Atilla doesn't like to listen to anyone and gets mouthy. DH got all pissed off.

Now I don't believe in spanking as a general punishment, but as a LAST RESORT. And I don't mean a power up, spin your arm spank, but a swat on the butt. Now I don't know what ACTUALLY happened but by the sounds of it, it was a swat because Atilla wasn't listening and being mouthy and DH is just huffy because someone disciplined his Princess. And my other issue is if this was such a HUGE thing, why didn't his sister tell him back in June/July when she SAW it happen? Oh thats right because she was pissed at ME for something that was none of her damn beeswax.

So now I am thinking of boycotting the nephews and Atilla's birthday party on Saturday because I don't feel like being around SIL or a bunch of bratty, undisciplined children. But then I think I am just being spiteful and should just go for the kids.

UGH I am SO SICK of all this SH!T. I just really do not feel like spending time with any of these people. I always end up sitting alone whilst SIL & her hubby and her hubby's family sit there and talk smack about me to everyone that will listen because apparently I am a HORRIBLE person. GRRRRRRRRRR. I am so pissed and confused I could cry.