Want to strangle BM and DH
Its been 6 months since BM has seen 2ss.(ss13,ss15) . She is suppose to have them everyother weekend but always jas some BS excuse.
She send a text saying shes going to see the boys this weekend and asking for DH to.meet her half way. (3hr drive)
We have plans for this weekend. And DH is considering what to tell her. WTF, really??!
She does absolutely NOTHING for the boys and wont even make it to bdays. The boys always come back resentful and treating their dad like shit for weeks after their visit since mom makes it a point to talk about DH and what a POS he is.
I know exactly what he's gonna do. Give in like always and im so pissed off.
I just need to vent.
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If he gives in does this
If he gives in does this disrupt your plans? If so, put your foot down! BM can be a decent human being and understand that she can't make demands 2-3 days before the weekend.
Stop accommodating your DH's
Stop accommodating your DH's being so accommodating.
Follow through with plans, without him. If this isn't viable, make fun plans for yourself that don't include DH and his kids. Don't partner with him in his poor choices. Let him experience some negative consequences every time he bends over and takes it for his ex.
Exjulie, you said what I was
Exjulie, you said what I was thinking!
I have told him how i feel
I have told him how i feel about it and he is still thinking what to respond. I'm going to enjoy my weekend and not spend it talking about BM or whatever injustices he complains he has to endure. If he wants to keep eating sh*t... bon appetit. None for me, thanks.
He's thinking about how to
He's thinking about how to respond?
"That does not work for me. I need more than a couple days notice to make that kind of a drive. Next time, plan accordingly and give me at least a week's notice. Then, it will be a possibility."
Do you prefer DH take 3 hours
Do you prefer DH take 3 hours to drive them half way, or do you rather do the plans alone if he says no, bm flakes, and he's stuck with the kids?
He said she could pick them
He said she could pick them up here if she wants to see them. Not gonna drive half ways.
He would never put them on a bus since there's a high probability she wont show.
I just hate changing plans her not showing up or showing up hours later.think I'm going to hang out with my mom Saturday and my kids on Sunday. He can stay home and try and figure out the logistics of BM visitation. It's Mother's Day weekend and I'm not dealing with this BS.
What plans did you all have
What plans did you all have originally? BM absolutely should go to your town if she wants to see skids on such short notice.