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Progress with BF and SD10!

Freedom2005's picture

Counseling is going great! Counselor HAD talked to BF about SD10 and some other variious things. She hit him hard with the "Freedom2005 should be the number 1 woman in the home" LOL She had to draw him a picture. She also agreed that SD10 also acts younger than her 10 years when she is around her Dad.

He listened! I am so glad too. He has been pulling away from her a little, showing more affection in full view of ALL the kids. Now, they are small, and I don't expect him to fully shun her, that would be just as bad!

He is so awesome. I am so glad I found a guy that is open to making a situation better if he can.

The counselor now wants me and her to talk and figure out what we can come up with so we can pull him in with me for a session. She wants me to "watch" the family (she is for the whole family) and inform her on how I percieve things are going.

On a side note, one of the things I was very stressed about has left. BF's brother was staying here and causing all kinds of issues with me. He is gone now and I feel so much better. He ALSO was babying SD10. Made things a bit harder. I have also seen a doctor about some issues, I am hoping the medicine helps (no not anti-depressants)

Come to find out I have a UTI and a thyroid defeicnecy. Hopefuly after some time and medication things will be even better.... they already are with the brother out!

There is a God!!!

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PnutButta's picture

awesome!! I'm glad for you!

Glad you figured out what was wrong with your health too...Take care of yourself!!

"In three words I can sum up everything I've learned about life: It goes on." ~Robert Frost