I HAVE A 1YR OLD AND A 6YR OLD SD. HER MOTHER IS DRIVING US CRAZY IT IS PETTY CALL AFTER PETTY CALL. I DO NOT HAVE TO DEAL WITH HER DIRECTLY SO IF SOMTHING IS SAID I FEEL LIKE I CANNOT DEFEND MYSELF. I THINK IT IS HIS BUSINESS WHEN IT COMES TO THEIR DAUGHTER BUT IT IS GETTING TO THE POINT THAT ME AND MY 1YR ARE GETTING METALLY ATTACKED. I AM EITHER TRYING TO BE HER MOTHER (WHICH I KNOW I'M NOT BUT I DO HELP TAKE CARE OF HER WHEN SHE IS THERE)OR I AM NOT GOOD ENOUGH. IT HAS GOTTEN SO BAD WITH ACCUSATIONS THAT SHE IS TRYING TO SAY THAT HER DAUGHTER DOES NOT GET ANYTHING AND ASKING HOW MUCH MONEY I SPEND ON MY DAUGHTER. THIS IS ALL IN HER HEAD!! THEY HAVE ABOUT THE SAME. WE ARE NOT MATERIALISTIC PEOPLE. I BOUGHT MY DAUGHTERS HALLOWEEN COSTUME ON LINE AND SHE GOT REALLY PISSED OFF BECAUSE I DID NOT WANT HER OLD ONE. THIS IS MY 1ST CHILD AND I WILL BUY HER WHATEVER I WANT!!! I ALSO BUY FOR MY SD. THERE IS NOW WAY TO KEEP IT PERFECTLY EVEN AND NO ONE SHOULD BE COUNTING ANY WAY. SHE IS SAYING THAT HER DAUGHTER SAYS HER SISTER HAS MORE BUT, SHE LIVES WITH US AND SHE WILL NOT EXPLAIN THAT SHE HAS MORE THERE BECAUSE SHE LIVES THERE SHE JUST LEAVES HER DAD TO BE THE BAD GUY AND PINKY SWEARS TO HER DAUGHTER SHE WILL NOT TELL. IF HE CAN'T ADDRESS IT HOW ARE WE SUPPOSED TO FIND OUT WHAT IS REALLY GOING ON? ANYONE HAVE ANY ADVISE? PLEASE!!