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These 2 girls are the most obnoxious, disrespectful children I've ever come across. These girls have made it their mission to get rid of me. Every time they are told no by their father, it's somehow because of me in their eyes and if I weren't there he'd say yes to everything.

The oldest of the two is 15, she started having sex at 14 since she's had multiple partners, all unprotected. We've bought close to 20 home pregnancies tests and she's been to the doctor's office a handful of times for pregnancy testing. Her mother did take her for birth control, the shot. The SD15 wants to be pregnant, has told numerous friends and family members, including her father. The girl has baby clothes saved in her online amazon shopping cart for christ sake! Her father LOL's at the statement in text, adding 'you don't know what you're talking about'. As if this is something to be taken lightly. He gives into her having boys over and letting them lay on the couch or recliner under a blanket, let's her continuously 'go out' with boys, being picked up by teenagers to go 'hang out' or go to their houses or parties. She lied on more than 2 occasions about where shew as staying the night only to end up staying at boys homes alone with them. After this happens she is caught in lie after lie about her where abouts and eventually the truth comes out. Dad then grounds her... which is taking her cell phone for all of maybe a day then giving it back and off she goes on her next adventure. There are no punishments or consequences for their bad behaviors. I am told to stay out of it, and let him parent his way. The SD15 when told no stomps to her room, slams her door, kicks holes in her bedroom walls, and screams bloody murder for 30 minutes then comes out and begs and pleads with Dad until he gives into her and off they go to the mall or Meijer to buy something. He rewards her tantrums. This girl has text me a few times telling me how I've ruined her life, I'm a gold digger and so on. Just mean nasty things that no 15 year old child should be saying to any adult, let alone a parent in the house she resides. Then the next hour is asking me to take her here or there. Right now in her pig pen of a room there are 4 used pregnancy tests, wrappers, boxes laying amidst her dirty clothing, bloody stained thongs and garbage fill floor. Her carpet is stained with make up because she puts so much liquid black eyeliner on and cover up. She ruined countless towels, shower curtains and window curtains dying her hair at home. This girl colors her hair a few times a month between home and salon visits. Dad spends 100's of dollars on hair color, pregnancy tests, make up, clothing, shoes, fast food and slurpees for this child. SD15 has no concept of picking up after oneself. She makes a mess with food or in the bathroom and leaves it for me to clean up. 2 year old children know how to pick up toys and put into a toy bin,this child doesn't know how to clean up after herself. She was never taught self hygiene either. She changes her tampon or panty liner in her bedroom to leave the used one on the carpet or in her trash can...or my personal favorite leaves the panty liner in her undies to go through the washing machine. I've explained to both her and her sister over and over again about personal care and disposal of sanity napkins and tampons. Neither understand this. SD15 showers once out of the seven days at our home. She does not brush her teeth daily, this I know for sure, I've set up 'traps' to see if they do daily brushing...and as I suspected...NOPE! Neither girl knew to wipe front to back as a female. SD15 thinks if you just cover it up with lots of perfume it's totally okay. This girl has been in trouble at school for fighting, bullying, spreading rumors, smearing shit on a locker in the girls locker room, sending nude pics to numerous boys.She has the dating app Tinder downloaded on her phone where she chats with 20-30 year old men. Both girls have numerous dick pics on their phones. I tell dad all I know and I've heard, as they share these things with friends, who are friends with my children. But dad has the mentality that if he doesn't see it it doesn't exist. He doesn't want to pry into their lives. And believes that they should do as they want and have no responsibility. Dad's house should be the fun house because of the divorce.

SD13 is just as bad...not sexually but is not far behind. Last year she struggled with weight issues, she suffered from depression. At one point she was committed into a metal hospital because she claimed to want to kill herself. This claim was thought to be for attention by her counselor and mother. Dad of course played into it and began the baby treatment and fulfilling every demand. She was admitted by counseling staff after threatening that she would kill herself if she had to go to school. She skipped a lot of school, hates it, does not want to go, would walk out of the school after being dropped off. So the staff admitted her much to her father's dismay. Mother agreed and only took one parents consent. She was hospitalized for a few weeks. After coming home she would self harm, but only surface scratches and eraser burns. Every time she got pissed at her father or mother she'd scratch herself up or threaten to do it. It came to a point where she stopped going to school for weeks/months and had to be with an adult. Since this she's moved on now, she's lost weight after being taken off some meds. She is now really into boys, make up and crop tops and selfies!! This girl stays up all night...literally until 6am and then sleeps all day...literally until 4 or 5pm. All night she lays in her bed on her phone, on social media. She does vidoes of her self lip singing to foul mouth rap music. She swears like a sailor, talks about how she wants to drink and do drugs, talks like she is a gangster. She writes all over her walls of her bedroom, ruining the drywall and paint. Uses permanent marker to write on walls and furniture, stupid poems about myself and my kids, her father or mother...depending on who is taking out her rage on. She calls me a gold digging slut whore in her sweet little poems. She steals clothing from my girls, to the point where I've replaced their door knobs with ones that have a key. She talked to her 5 year old cousin about masturbating. She is the biggest pig on earth. Her room is disgusting mess, clothes, tampons, dirty panties, spoiled milk in cups, food in dishes. She will eat and leave the mess on the counter, pour a huge glass of milk and throw it in the sink so it splashes all over. Doesn't shower regularly. She is a thief, who steals from her sister, my girls, my self and her friends. She is the most spoiled of the children. She gets what she wants when she wants it. Her dad will get home from work, I have dinner done for us all to sit down as a family to eat and she will be waiting for him to walk through the door for him to run her 40 minutes to see her horse. So instead of eating dinner and relaxing, he has to run and sit at a barn while she rides, no dinner.

When these girls want something it has to be now! They attack anyone who comes in the way of their happiness and wants. They attack my children. They say that 'we' (my children and I) believe we are better than them. I think this is their view not mine or my children. I believe they know they are wrong, but it's like they have no shame or remorse.