Hi, I wanted to update my blog. My SD is now out of the house, living with BM and has found shared housing for next month. YEAH!!! My husband and I are planning a get away and our marriage not only survived the SD's attempts at driving us apart and making me the bad guy - I think it is stronger. We're having fun again - we're able to laugh again. I have no contact with SD and that's a good thing - for now. I'm contemplating on ways to build a bridge yet still keep boundaries. I think my 1st attempt will be an Easter brunch. I'll invite her and a friend along with other family friends. Maybe even make a couple of her favorite dishes - somehow open those lines of communication - again with boundaries. Any ideas or experiences are appreciated.