Since I have started to treat SS like an adult since he decides that it's okay to yell and scream about dinner choices and what he can and can't do (like an adult) he decides to write a note and hide it behind my back to his daddy about it. I showed it to DH and all I got is "wow at least he's having deep thoughts about it" Really that's all you have to say. Wow is right... I have given your SS some responsibilities such as showering and eating and getting homework done and that's what I get....