Today BM stands for 'Bitch Mode". Why oh why are all these BM's alike? My BF's ex called him on Sunday morning at 9:30..we were just getting up. He didn't answer and waited to see if she left a message - she didn't. His daughter almost 20 was driving up north with her BF, and he was afraid something might have happened, car problems, etc. So he called his ex back about 10:30. She tore into him about not answering her call when she called. There was no emergency...she just wanted to bitch about how he doesn't take enough interest in the girls, not enough time, not enough vacations, not enough money spend on them, etc. She gets this way every couple of months. Of course, he listens for half an hour, I went out in the backyard and read a magazine..I couldn't stand to listen to it. She said that the 'girls' think he would do anything for me, and does things for me all the time. I don't think the 'girls' ever said such a thing...I'm sure that's BM in Bitch Mode! She blames him for not being more involved, he just reminds her that she was the one cheated and left and he can't get any more involved under the circumstances of not living with the girls.

I think there might have been 2 things that set this all off this time. 1.It was his weekend with his daughter (14), but she wanted to stay at her moms since she had a dance on Sat night and then a sleepover at moms house. He said of course, no problem. He and I picked up the girls on Sat night at school after dance and took them to BM's. Think it made her mad I was with him. Nothing new to her or them, of course I was with him, I'm always with him when the girls aren't. 2. She didn't want the oldest daughter to go on the trip with her BF (first time she's done this). And she wanted my BF to tell his daughter she couldn't go. He didn't think it was his call, she lives with her mom and her mom pays for the car and enables her to the point she doesn't have to work just goes to school. AND she's almost 20 years old.

This woman has moved on...moved in with her BF right after split up over 5 years ago. But she can't let BF move on. When she sees me she's so sweet..it is sickening! I'm so glad your with BF, etc. etc. She just doesn't think he should have a life other than his GIRLS..she wants nothing to interfere on the girls time, she wants him to nothing that make take money away from them or extras. She has said before that he takes me everywhere but never the girls. he has taken them on trips, and when we go anywhere, we split the costs.

Sorry...I am just so angry that he lets it all get to him. She guilt trips like no one can. He just doesn't ever see it and it is written on the wall. It only took him 1 day for him to decide to take his 14 year old somewhere over Easter break (because that's another thing she said...you never take her anywehre..you always take Hanny). We haven't been anywhere in almost a year. He took his daughter on a trip last Easter to his sisters in a lovely area, she didn't want to go, and was not too enthused.

And if you've read any of my blogs, I recently complained because he doesn't include me in his life with them. I feel like I fill in the cracks, he has never not seen them because of me, nothing he has ever spent on me has taken a dime away from them. This woman just can't stand the thought that he has someone else in his life, even though she seems so happy he does. I don't understand it!