Bonding w/Stepson Not Going to Happen!
After 7 yrs of being w/my husband and stepson in my life...tonight was the night that I realize that I cannot or will not bond w/stepson. Not that I haven't tried at all, I've tried many times to talk to him, but I literally have to force myself to do so. I don't know what it is, is it because I resent him being in my life? I see his mother when I see his face and I just get sick to my stomach. Sometimes he acts like his mother, talks down to my daughter and that makes it worse. I never told my husband how I feel because it will just break his heart. I don't plan on telling him. I can't and won't force myself anymore to try and really bond w/this child. What do I do? I'm just living my life right now and not concerned about stepson at all. Enjoying my time spent w/my daughter and husband. I know that stepson probably feels the vibe but nothing for him to do about it. I just feel like when I see him I imagine all the bad stuff that his mother must tell him about us. I can tell because when I ask him questions I can sense that he is not telling me the truth or making things up to cover up something. Need you guys help on what to do or just move on w/my life and not think about stepson....???